Unspoken Signs of Attraction
Signs of Unspoken Attraction at Work
Nothing can be stressful in determining whether a woman is into you or not. It is not only stressful but also capable of making your confidence feel undermined.
However, just like other many things, science is there for signs of mutual interest. All you need is to understand what you want and focus on it not worrying about whether she likes you or not.
How do women communicate their interest?
Women are more skillful in communicating their interest as compared to men. While a man will come straight to the point and say ‘I had some good time with you last night’ or ‘I enjoyed it’, a woman would want you to read it in between the lines to get her feelings.
BONUS TIP: Unbeknownst to many men around the world, that is how most women tend to convey their thoughts and feelings regularly and fully expect men to understand that. Yes, I know it sounds crazy at first, but the worst thing we can do is to show our disgust towards it or even worse is to call the girl out for it.
This can become difficult especially if you’re as inexperienced with girls as I was back in the day but thanks to a close friend and mentor of mine named Michael Fiore, I began to understand the deep psychology of women, and why they do the things they do.
One quirky tidbit throw you guys here is that women believe that not responding to your texts as your trying to build the relationship between you two is a sign of her being “nice.” Yes, I know that is insanity! I highly suggest taking a quick 30 minutes of your time to check this video out by Michael Fiore.
In the video, you will learn his upbringing on how he was able to overcome his trouble with women that a lot of men can relate to and how he was able to crack the code to understand the woman mind as well as never having to question whether she’s interested or not.
It should not worry you if she never comes to you and tells it straight how much she enjoys your dates or likes you. This is just among the many ways women communicate.
Instead of waiting for her apparent signs to you, start looking for her cunning signals of showing interest in you.
Triple AAA principle
Always assume her signals is a principle taught in Aypa Dating whereby you should assume the other party is attracted to you unless it is proven otherwise.
The reason for doing this is because, at times, some of the attraction signs may be so ambiguous. An example of such is a case of her laughing at what you say which might make you think she takes it ridiculous or funny.
This helps you keep your confidence. Further, it is far much better to assume interest where it is not present than to not assume interest where it is full.
It is always a good habit to assume a situation is best as it makes you get into it completely. It requires little crafty to change the effectiveness when communicating with a woman.
A touch never lies
One of most trusted sign of chemistry between the two of you which does not lie is a touch. Once you touch her, it communicates your interest towards you.
If her response to your touch is positive, then she likes you. This does not apply to intended touches only but also accidental touches.
In case you are walking beside her, and mistakenly you bump into her, and she instead draws closer, then she is attracted to you.
Another sign is her liking you touching her hands, her back at the upper part of her arms. Try a touch in safe places to read her response.
Eye contact does not lie too
When you are talking with a woman as she holds your gaze it’s a huge positive. If she stares at you when you look away or keeps staring at you for some time it is even better.
Eye contact is quite communicative and never an unmistakable sign of her mutual attraction to you.
Otherwise, if her gaze is around the room or the drinks she is taking and not at you at all, it is a sure sign of no interest towards you.
Her interaction when with you should be the first thing to communicate to you of her interest towards you. If she gets responsive to your conversation and dates, she is interested in you.
BONUS TIP #2: Taught by another mentor of mine named Lawrence Lanoff, a woman is more nervous around men than we’ll ever understand. A lot of us men will naturally hand over the power to girls and let them have the final say if we’re good enough for them or not when that’s the wrong way to do it.
As previously shared above, there’s a second language we need to understand when it comes to the woman mind, and that is a language that can be obtained. The reason woman are more nervous than men when it comes to building relationships is that woman are more worried about their perceived image to the world.
At no point in an interaction with a man do girls want to feel easy, slutty, etc. It’s our job as men to make a girl feel completely comfortable and beautiful on her skin. Another problem women face when dealing with their perceived image is the ability to open up sexually even though they want to so bad!
I highly suggest taking a bit more of your time to watch this video here to learn more about how you can make any woman feel more comfortable with herself as the alpha male she’s been looking for all her life to steer her in the direction she wants to go.
If she’s spending too much time on her phone, seems restless or bored, just move on she is not interested. Always remember, you aim to grow mentally strong daily.
Therefore, if she shows no interest or she is not responding to you, do not waste your time.
Ask yourself regularly whether what you give in the interaction you get it back. If you are not getting it back, move on do not act so desperate.